Opinion, Conviction and Doctrine
When approaching theology, many of us often make the mistake of mixing issues and make erroneous conclusions resulting is poor decision making.
Last weekend, I attended a friend's church wedding. Even before the wedding, I had been cautioned that the bride's Reformed Baptist church had 'ordered' all its 30-something members not to attend the wedding. The real reasons for the strange order was unclear, but was told that the Baptist church was doubtful of the groom's conversion experience. Sources told me that the bride's church made a decision that the marriage has all the signs of a 'unequally yoked' nuptial.
The groom was from a Methodist church. They way I see it, it would have been a simple solution. The Baptist ministers could have discussed with the Methodist ministers to sort this out, rather than banning participation in the wedding. If there are clear reasons to doubt the conversion, talk collectively to the groom. I am not sure if this was done. Perhaps, there are other even more grave reasons for the Baptist Church's stand, I don't know. Nevertheless, it was a sad and an unfortunate development.
I am also wondering if this is actually the result of a difference in theological conviction between the Reformed Baptist Church (who are Calvinistic) and the Methodists (who are mostly Arminians). Maybe it isn't, and I would be very glad if I am wrong here.
But what if I am right? Then, this is a tragedy indeed. We need unity, not division.
This is the result of confusing what is an opinion, conviction and a doctrine. I see many Christians making similar errors when it comes to stating an opinion, a conviction or relating a doctrine. Do you know the difference? Let me put it in a simple manner. Let us consider the issue of Jesus' Second Coming as an example.
Opinions usually carry an element of uncertainty in it. Example: "I think Jesus is coming again." or "I don't think Jesus is coming again." or "Jesus has already returned!"
Opinions need not be treated as gospel truth, but needs further examination and discussion to find out the truth.
Convictions involve elements of faith and also our personal biases (if any). Example: "I do/do not believe totally that Jesus is coming again. No doubt about it." or "I am totally convinced that Jesus will return soon in before the end of this century!". These are personal convictions, which also require further examination. Sometimes, we only need to accept it as it is - a person's conviction. We need not necessarily accept it as doctrine. Neither do we have to believe it completely.
Doctrines are unshakeable truths, which will stand true through the test of time throughout eternity. Example: "Jesus will come again for a second time." Period. No debate required. That's what the Bible teaches, and that's the truth of the matter.
What's to be debated however, will depend on one's conviction and opinion. For instance, since Jesus is coming back (doctrine), when will he return (either opinion or conviction). The line between opinion and conviction may not be very obvious, but convictions typically come as a result of much faith, research, personal/group bias or even the result of spritual conviction.
Will discuss more about this another time. If we all can understand this frame and accept, i think we will have less debates and look of points of unity instead of diversity. That wedding would have continued in a very exciting way, had all the leaders acted in a mature manner.
What do you think?

